Sunday, 22 July 2012

If you are careful enough, you will find most women but only a few elderly men, men died many years earlier than women.

 A common phenomenon is that among all the old people, many women are there, but rarely men are alive, men have many years shorter life compare to women. No matter how old you are, and healthy conditions, only can life with husbands, you will not feel lonely and bad, even you may be eighty, ninety or a thundered years old.

When come to be old, for husband and wife, watching TV, listening to the radio, traveling together, going to friend's home have some talk, jogging together in the garden, the happiness, and leisure can not be replaced by how many children that will bring with you. Moreover, now, most people can only have one child. Understand by the general population, men stronger than women, women having children, certainly the body inferior to men. However, why many elderly people, mostly old husband go first out wife?.

As a matter of fact, men are not as strong as the woman thought. Their strong, because they all faced the humiliation of life, loss, frustration, pain, depression, stress and the life of the heavy, all of tolerance in his heart, would not say it, refused to show it out. These invisible moods and tolerance to some content, like the computer, virus accumulated and the gradually collapse and crash. Why do men drink? Why smoke? Why meditate? More reason, in fact, that he has accumulated too much psychological virus. Just because he is a man, he can not easily shed tears, but can not easily tell the person. All these behaviors are to prove that he is strong.

And women, in a better way, will tell his husbands or friends, husbands or parents if meet any grievance. Tears and exposition will clear up all the "virus" and tomorrow is ok.

And human, almost all of the disease, more reason for this is smoldering out. Therefore, the emotional drain out of love noisy woman, often to long life. The man, foreseen in his wife died. This is why men usually go ahead of women.

Then how to make your husband enjoy a longer life and stay with you as long as possible? You need to do a lot of things now!

First, create harmony and relaxed environment for husband when they back to home. In fact, no important visitors, why not make sure to drag spotless? Why should wash clothes once they are take off? Why should this be the time to relax at home, which makes both cares about it? Most unhappy are from housework.

Second, when husband meet any trouble and not happy, you would better know all of these although he do not want let you know. Care for him with love, pour a glass of wine, talk about some humorous piece, the first transfer of his displeasure, And then slowly find ask.

Third, the wine can not be excessive. Foolish man drinks a lot in front of others, if the wine can not be alcohol, at least suggest him not smoke.
Fourth, be harmony with his parents if you have to live with parents. Any quarrel with parents may shorten the year husbands lives. He have to deal with a lot of things in home and work, it is not easy thing.

You can do this; make his physical and mental health at the same time, because you are living together, so you will certainly be happy and healthy. In urging his spirit at the same time, you will also know how to practice, increase core competitiveness.

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